You process emotions through service. When you love someone, you fix their problems. When you're hurting, you organize s...
You process emotions through service. When you love someone, you fix their problems. When you're hurting, you organize something.
Order and usefulness. You feel safe when you're needed and when everything has its place.
The inner critic goes nuclear. Every flaw becomes proof of unworthiness. You punish yourself before anyone else can.